how very very true.. and how saddening it is..
I had it.. n i lost it.. almost total loss
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Why do we shout when we are angry. Please read on ... ... ...
how very very true.. and how saddening it is..
I had it.. n i lost it.. almost total loss
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Why do we shout when we are angry. Please read on ... ... ...
I had foolishly thought that i will not fall into this.
but i was so wrong. on looking back.. i had let down my love only once too many.. and i shall live with pain and regret..
Why do i categorise this as mediation? isn't a reflection on your deeds worth mediating? to reflect and think
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Sometimes love is for a moment, sometimes love is for a lifetime.
Sometimes a moment is a lifetime.
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived.
One day there was a storm in the sea and the island was about to get drowned.
Every feeling was scared but Love made a boat to escape.
Every feeling boarded the boat.
Only 1 feeling was left.
Love got down to see who it was.
It was EGO.
Love tried and tried but Ego refused to bulge.
The water was rising.
Every one asked love to leave him and come in the boat, but love simply loves all.
At last all the feelings escape and Love dies with Ego on the island.
Love died because of Ego.
But if ego had slowly got smaller and smaller, love would have carried him away on its arms, and love would not have died.
But because EGO was so strong and stubborn, love died.
An Argument wins the situations but loses the person. So when arguing with our loved ones, remember that situations are not more important than our loved ones.
At that time the Lord sat cross-legged for seven days experiencing the bliss of liberation. Now it happened that there occurred, out of season, a great rainstorm and for seven days there were rain clouds, cold winds, and unsettled weather. Then Mucalinda the naga-king left his dwelling place and having encircled the Lord's body seven times with his coils, he stood with his great hood spread over the Lord's head (thinking) to protect the Lord from cold and heat, from gadflies, mosquitoes, wind, sun, and the touch of creeping things.
At the end of those seven days the Lord emerged from that concentration. Then Mucalinda the naga-king, seeing that the sky had cleared and the rain clouds had gone, removed his coils from the Lord's body. Changing his own appearance and assuming the appearance of a youth, he stood in front of the Lord with his hands folded together venerating him.
Then, on realizing its significance, the Lord uttered on that occasion this inspired utterance:
Blissful is detachment for one who is content,
For one who has learned Dhamma and who sees;
Blissful is non-affliction in the world,
Restraint towards living creatures;Blissful is passionlessness in the world,
The overcoming of sensual desires;
But the abolition of the conceit "I am" --
That is truly the supreme bliss.
| We humans tend to think that we are special. We like to think that we are apart from and can control nature. We can never be other than nature itself and as such subjected to its laws of impermanence. There is no permanent unchanging self to be found anywhere. What is born must die. Aging, sickness, death and separation is our lot. Unlike plants and animals we are capable of intelligent thoughts and creativity, of love, kindness and compassion but also of the great cruelty and horrors. We create stories, concepts etc and believe them to be true. Imagine what would happen if "Earth" was to be struck by a giant comet tomorrow. What then is the meaning of life? No one has the answer but know only this: All is impermanent, unsatisfacory and not self. Nothing is to be clung to as me, mine or myself. ----------------- Emptiness The teaching of "emptiness" (shunyata) or "no-thing-ness," tells us the impermanent nature of all forms and states of being in relation to the five aggregates, and that nothing posseses what could be considered an enduring, unique identity. Insight into this basic truth leads to wisdom. The primary principle of shunyata is that everything, including the "self," is interrelated and mutually dependent, without inherent existence. |
First experience the Is-ness of the gap between 2 moments of thought, then the Is-ness of the thought between 2 moments of gap.
Even if those who begin to practice this find it difficult to continue in this state for more than an instant,there is no need to worry about it. Without wishing for the state to continue for a long time and without fearing the lack of it altogether, all that is necessary is to maintain pure presence of mind, without falling into the dualistic situation of there being an observing subject perceiving an observed object.
If the mind, even though one maintains simple presence, does not remain in this calm state, but always tends to follow waves of thoughts about the past or future, or becomes distracted by the aggregates of the senses such as sight, hearing, etc., then one should try to understand that the wave of thought itself is as insubstantial as the wind. If one tries to catch the wind, one does not succeed; similarly if one tries to block the wave of thought, it cannot be cut off. So for this reason one should not try to block thought, much less try to renounce it as something considered negative.
In reality, just as there is no distinction whatever between the sun and its rays, or a stream and its ripples, so there is no distinction between the mind and thought. If one considers the calm state as something positive to be attained, and the wave of thought as something negative to be abandoned, and one remains thus caught up in the duality of accepting and rejecting, there is no way of overcoming the ordinary state of mind.
I wonder.... does prayer affirms and add weight to what you had wanted all along?
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A prayer (avhayana or pathana) is a collection of words addressed to God or to gods.
There is NO ONE point in time that everything began but that everything is cyclical including the universe; it states clearly that the universe begins and ends and then begins again et infinatum. This teaching predated the scientific principles of Big Bounce and Big Bang by 2600 years! But The aim of Buddhism is to develop wisdom and compassion and thereby attain Nibbana. Knowing how the universe began is academic and contributes nothing to this task .
Once a man demanded that the Buddha tell him how the universe began. The Buddha said to him "You are like a man who has been shot with a poison arrow and who, when the doctor comes to remove it, says 'Wait! Before the arrow is removed I want to know the name of the man who shot it, what clan he comes from, which village he was born in. I want to know what type of wood his bow is made from, what feathers are on the end of the arrow, how long the arrows are, etc etc.' That man would die before all these questions could be answered. My job is to help you to remove the arrow of suffering from yourself" (Majjhima Nikáya Sutta No. 63).
The Buddha aimed to help us solve the practical problems of living - it does not encourage speculation. And if a Buddhist wants to know how and when the universe began he would ask a scientist.